First, what is a soul mate?
Is it a person, of course it’s a person. Or is it?
If it is a person then some of us believe we have found our soul mate, some are looking or some have given up.
Why are some the lucky ones and some so very unlucky?
Is it possible, that a soul mate is not a person, but an actual soul?
If we look outside of ourselves for a soul mate, will we always be disappointed?
What if that soul mate, is inside you and has been a part of you all the time? All you need to do is listen closely, be still long enough to hear the whispers from within.
What wasted energy is expended on searching and hoping that one day your soul mate will appear, when it is already here?
Or if your soul mate dies or leaves you, then you are left alone, either searching again or resigning yourself to a life of loneliness.
What if your soul mate never dies or leaves you because it is waiting patiently inside you?
The human brain is ill equipped to grasp things that cannot be touched or seen, anything ethereal is often cast aside as mystical or magical thinking.
A human soul mate, makes perfect sense, as they are physically available, they lay next to you, hold your hand, tell you they love you, as with a spirit soul mate, there are only whispers, nudges in your belly, heart palpitations and flushes.
Now if you are fortunate to have found your human soul mate, it is inevitable they will let you down or a disappointment.
It is inevitable, human soul mates, will fall from grace, but spirit soul mates are steadfast, never leaving you alone, always holding you up, loving you, and reminding you are loved.
So stop looking outside for your soul mate, take a look inside. Once you find your soul mate, that soul mate will be there to help find your human mate. Your soul mate will make sure that person loves you and lifts you up, because he/she wants what is best for you.
First look inside and connect with your soul mate and then your human mate can be found.
Have you found your soul mate?
Look inside, not outside
Your soul mate is waiting.
Recipe: Finding your soul mate meditation
Settle into a comfortable seat, with your hands, palms down resting on your knees, arms soft
Take deep breaths
Once you start feeling relaxed and your mind settles down
Take your hands and flip your palms up
Silently or state out loud as you speak to your soul mate.
“I am listening, I am here, and I can feel you”
Pause for a moment and wait.
Notice what is coming up for you, physical sensations, thoughts, feelings, your hands may begin to tingle and become warm.
Sit with all that you are experiencing for 5 – 10 minutes
When ready, gently open your eyes and then get on with your day.
Repeat often and soon you will begin to connect with your soul mate